Sex position of the week: Rainbow Arch!

This is one of the hottest and daring positions that I've tried in a really long time. This is great for vaginal and anal sex and provides a great view for your man!

Get some action tonight, woman not required

It wasn't too long ago that I was innocently snooping through the porn collection of this guy I was seeing. I was fascinated by his vast collection of porn. Even more so that some of it had sentimental value to him. Anyway, as I was digging through his treasure chest, I jumped back as soon as I realized what I was looking at. A fake pussy!

Can you believe it? I've heard the term "pocket pussy" before, but never thought I'd see a giant replica of an ass with a vagina. It was so life-like, I have to say I was slightly mesmerized by this. Of course, I asked him about it. Where did he get it? Did it feel real? I don't think I needed to ask why he had it.

Like most guys he is ready to fuck every other hour and there isn't always a delectable lady such as myself around. Male sex toys are so detailed and fabulously sexy, they even model most of these after real women. Porn stars of course!

I did a little research on my top go-to sex toy site and found that they have three pages full of simulated vaginas. They say that these are realistic pussies and are the closest you can get to actually having sex. Some of them even vibrate or are in positions like doggy style (my favorite position by the way). To be honest I thought Jay would be embarrassed that I found it, but he was actually proud!

Let me know if you've tried these! And as always if you have any sex questions that you are burning to ask, just leave me a comment!

xoxo
Summer

Deep Throat Tips

Deep throating hasn't always come easy for me. I've seen it done so many times, on DVDs and the ladies always make it seem effortless. I get satisfaction out of giving a good blow job, and being able to deep throat is a part of that.

However, it does take some practice. What's more exciting than deep throat practice? You may want to start practicing alone with your finger, a banana or your tooth brush. Ease it back in your throat as far as you can get it, careful not to make yourself puke! Your gag reflex will defiantly kick in, but the more you practice, the less sensitive your reflexes will be. You will be able to go further and further every time. I recommend using your finger because most guys are not as long and as hard as a toothbrush. Right?

Now get your man in bed for some one on one practice. Another tip is to swallow while you are giving head. If you are not swallowing during the process you are more likely to gag, this is a natural reflex. Practice swallowing your saliva with his cock in your mouth. Also, make sure that you are breathing, if you don't get enough air you may throw up. Are you still with me? There is a reason why its called a blow job...its a tough job!

Work slowly, ease his cock in your mouth and put it in as far back as you can. Let up if you begin to gag. Keep doing this, getting it further and further in. You can also try putting your head over the side of the bed (upside down) or the 69 position to relax your throat.

If these tips still don't work for you, you can try a product on the market called "Good Head" that will temporarily eliminate your gag reflex. It comes in yummy flavors too. You'll be swallowing cock gag-free before you know it!

xoxo
Summer

Sex Position of the Week: Threading the Needle!

I picked Threading the Needle as this weeks sex position. This position was introduced to me over my little vacation and it was wildly exciting. I felt like I was in control. Its sort of like a reversed missionary style! I loved it!

I sat between his legs with my breasts facing him. He grabbed my tits while I gyrated my wet pussy on his hard cock. I started fucking him slowly to get the pace set and then I just couldn't control myself anymore and began to scream for more. He then he grabbed my ass and fucked me so hard. It was incredible!

Let me know if you give this position a try this week!

XOXO

Summer

How to Find the G-Spot

Hello again! I'm sorry for the small break since my last post, but I went on a mini-vacation! Anyhow, while I was gone I had an interesting conversation with my girlfriends. Almost all of them (except for one) did not believe in the G-spot. They all read the magazines with stories by women claiming that they had the most earth shattering orgasm when the G-spot was rubbed the right way, but they couldn't figure it out for themselves.

I truly did not believe the myth until I did a little research and headed to the bedroom for some experimentation. After about a week of G-spot stimulation I discovered the secrets to female ejaculation. Yes, it's possible!


Here are some tips for stimulating your lover's G-Spot

First, its important to set the mood. You won't get a good response from your lady if she isn't turned on. Get her warmed up by kissing her neck, licking her breasts and rubbing her body. Make her want you!

When she is nice and horny, you will know that is is time to begin stimulating the g-spot. She will be more open to the sensations if she is extremely turned on. Begin by inserting two fingers into her vagina about two inches. She should be wet by now, but you may need a little lubrication for added pleasure. Slightly crook your fingers, as though you are motioning for her to "come here". Your fingers should be facing forward as you touch the front of her vagina. Start rubbing your fingers back and forth, side to side in a variety of pressures. Ask her what feels good, suggest that she tighten her pelvic muscles for more sensation.

How do you know if you've found the g-spot? Well, there isn't a road map, but it will feel like a rough patch about the size of a quarter. It may feel ribbed and maybe even slightly bumpy. As the area becomes stimulated it will become larger and engorged. Some women prefer clitoral stimulation at the same time, which will maximize her orgasm. She may prefer a harder pressure on her g-spot than what she likes on her clitoris. A great combination for g-spot-clitoral stimulation is to touch the g-spot with your middle finger while your thumb stimulates her clit.

She may feel like she has to pee, but this won't actually happen, its simply the beginning stages of female ejaculation!

If you can pull this off, I guarantee that you will be her best and favorite lover.

Tip for women: Stimulate your own G-Spot:

If you are alone (this is just as fun!) read an erotic story while completely naked. You can do this while laying on your bed or in the bath tub. Once you are heated up from the erotic story begin rubbing your body slowly and seductively, play with your nipples and gently pull on them. Start to rub your pussy. Get yourself a bit excited before putting your fingers inside. Like I mentioned above there's no road map to the G-Spot but you should be able to find it by the feeling it gives you and by the way it feels.

xoxo
Summer