Anal Sex! There, I said it. All summer long my best guy-friends have been asking the same question, "How can I get my girlfriend to have anal sex with me?". I knew men were eager to give it a try, but I didn't know just how eager until I started giving advice on the subject.
I love anal, but that wasn't always the case. At first I thought it was gross, I would say "you want to put what...where? There? Really?" After that realization I thought about the pain and continued to protest giving it a try.
My boyfriend begged and pleaded. So, being the good 'sexpert' that I am I did a little research.
I found out that if done right it wasn't painful or gross. In fact, it was amazing!
It is possible to convert your girlfriend, but you have to be patient and willing to start smaller. A big penis coming at her can be scary and daunting. After a nice shower (or during!) put some lubrication on your well trimmed finger and slightly tease the inside rim of her anus slowly (I said slowly!) easing your way in. Ask her what she likes, and follow any unspoken signals that she may give. Once she becomes comfortable with one finger, try two and so forth until she is ready to have you inside of her. Please keep in mind that you should never put your finger or penis anywhere else on or in her body after it has been in her sweet asshole. Make sure you have lots of lube and condoms handy. You can never have enough of either.
If she tells you to stop, then stop. Some women may never like it, but at least giving it a try for the first time can be the most exciting part.
Good luck!
XOXO
Summer
