Take Your Time

Possibly the #1 mistake guys make with sex (and the #1 way they turn off their partners) is by taking things too quickly in bed. Women tend to not get "warmed up" as fast as we men do. We can get an erection in about 2 seconds. But women usually don't get wet nearly that fast.

Take your time. Explore her body. Touch her everywhere you normally ignore. Take your time before you even touch her anywhere sexually. And then take even more time before you try and pull out the python. You want her to be begging for it before you give it to her! This will make sex much more exciting for both of you.