How To Kiss

Kissing. It's becoming a lost art form. Remember when you were in high school when you first started kissing (or in college if you were a loser like me.) Do you remember how exciting and thrilling just kissing could be? Now it seems like we often make a quick run through and jump right into what's next. That may even be fine for most of us guys. But guess what. Your woman probably would be a lot more into this whole sex thing if you got her a little bit excited. And being a great kisser is one of the best ways to get your woman excited.

So then, to the subject at hand. How to kiss? How to be a better kisser?

The main thing is taking it slow. Letting the passion build up. This is a big key to almost anything with a woman. We often want to charge full steam ahead. But if we take it a bit slower they will appreciate it and get into it a lot more.

Start with just the lips. Don't go charging in with the tongue right away. That's a huge mistake. Most women will actually be quite turned off if you start burrowing your tongue deep into her throat as soon as you start kissing. In reality I may want to change that "most" with an "all" but who knows, maybe there's some woman somewhere who likes to get down like that.

So as I was saying. Start of kissing just her lips. Nibble them. Slowly. Leisurely. There's no rush. Gently touch her while you are kissing her (but not in an overly sexually manner, in a caressing caring way.) Remember when you give your woman what she wants she'll be that much more likely to be ready and willing to give you want you want!

You should be thinking "tease" when you first start kissing. Let the tension build slowly.

Once you are fully acquainted with her lips then you can start exploring her gums, her upper palate, her teeth. Take it slowly.

Once you feel she is excited, or if she has introduced HER tongue then you may want to start mixing in your tongue too. There's nothing wrong with tongue. It's just that you need to bring it in at the right moment. And you don't want to overdo it.

Of course there are many more places to kiss than just the mouth. Most women love being kissed on the neck. This is a way to get her very excited. Concentrate especially on the "nape" of the neck. This is the area right below the hairline. Again take it slow. Make it tender. Breathe her on her neck. Pretend like you are in one of those romantic movies she loves.

Remember you'll get back what you put in. Plus you may even enjoy this. Maybe you're a romantic after all?

If you want to learn more about kissing check out this Kissing Guide eBook.